I am trying to learn the art of being comfortable with being uncomfortable. It sounds contradicting, I know, but I think it is possible. I say that, especially at a time right now because there are so many decisions I am going to be making in the next few years that are going to determine the course of the rest of my life. No pressure or anything right? It definitely gives me anxiety about making the right decisions and not feeling regret from the decisions I make. I think what is most difficult is remaining patient in times of uncertainty. It's like we want all the answers when we want them, mostly we want answers immediately. I know I do. However, I have learned that is okay to live life being uncomfortable sometimes. Answers to questions may not come for years at a time and sometimes the best answer to uncertainty is to stay calm, stop worrying, trust and let go. I believe that if we worry it will cause an entirely different outcome than if we just have faith and let things fall in to place a little bit.
I have also learned to live without expectation.
I believe being happy is being accepting. We can never wish our life away or wish circumstances were different because we are going to miss the life that we have now. The one that is real.
A person that never made a mistake never tried anything new. And even if certain experiences in our life end badly, it's worth it if it made us feel something and most importantly if it teaches us something.
So maybe I should take my own advice. Maybe they aren't mistakes...just lessons learned? I think there is a definite difference between mistakes and regrets. I think regrets come from not being honest with ourselves. I believe if we are honest and let go of our pride while trying for the best than we can be assured that life worked out the way that it is suppose to. I think, at least in my experience that letting go of my pride and humbling myself has brought a lot of blessings.
Great Harvest
(lunch time is the best time)
I look forward to lunch time everyday. Mostly because I never go grocery shopping so I find myself eating out almost everyday. It's also another excuse to call one of my friends and do two of my favorite things, eat and talk. It's a nice break from the work day and I love trying out new restaurants. One of my favorite lunch spots this year has been Great Harvest. Who doesn't love a good sandwich, chips and a cookie?
This sandwich in particular is the Rachel. I love it because of the Rye break, freshly sliced turkey and coleslaw. Another sandwich of choice is the Turkey Pesto.I have also heard they have a killer Ruben sandwich if you are into that kind of thing .
Hittin the T.J Maxx Jack Pot
I have to brag for a little bit about my T.J Maxx shopping cart because I feel like it looks like I went shopping at Anthropologie. In my dreams. I can not afford Antrhopologie in this day and age. I am a poor college students who works 30 hours a week on $8 an hour. So.... alternative..T.J Maxx. Their clothes section is alright but their home goods is amazing. If you don't care about paying for the name and would rather shop low prices, then take my advice and check it out. You can find some great home decor!
